I though the man was giving out some brochure or ads etc..Bt it turns out to be a really intriguing mag!..Firstly, the half naked men and women caught my eyes. Secondly, its the content inside!...*hot right* not really hahax...
Its really "naked." Who would have thought such thing could come out on the streets of SG.
Perhaps most of you in JCs, Polys and ITEs may have received it.. through other ways be it from your lecturer or student union etc. I find that it is really daring to challenge the word SEX in an openly manner...
The Editorial definitely know the mag must not be another lesson on safe sex but what are the convictions...They definitely hit the bullseye... becoz the statistics of teens having sex is staggering...
One article I came across What Wo(Men) want is somewhat like a love guru article...
They Talk about Men and Women.
-Men-
He isnt as strong as he seems
Behind Your man's strong facade may lie uncertainty and the fear of failing. Sometimes he is unsure about what he should do in a situation and feels inadequate to provide solutions or comfort, but he masks his securities and "acts tough."
So What Can We do? For Starters, don't taunt him or tear him down when he tries to help. Rather encourage and Affirm him by showing your appreciation, especially in front of others!
Have your look matters to him
Dressing up for your man is one way of showing how much you respect and love him. We're not saying doll up to the nines to eat dinner at the nearby kopitiam, but some personal grooming can go a long way. If you think you're fat, don't just complain - D0 something about it! A man does gets frustrated when the woman in his life anguishes endlessly about her appearance.
He Loves You
If there is one thing a man most wishes you knew about him, it's that he really loves you. Often, he may want to express his feelings to you, but he worries that he will not do a good job. To make things easier for him, let him know what makes you feel most loved! Appreciate him for the times he does try to show his love for you.
-Women-
She can't shut out her emotions.
Suprising fact: Most women are like Macs, and most men are like PCs! Like a Mac, There can be many "windows" open( thoughts and feelings) on the screen of a woman's mind at any one time. VS the "PC" mindset of a man, who is able to close each "window" on his screen before going on to the next one. (On the other hand, that's why women can multitask, and most men can't!)
DON'T Say "Just think about it"
(She Can't.) Instead, listen reassure and encourage her in any action that needs to be taken to resolve her concern.
She Want your empathy
"I don't want you to fix the problem; I just want you to listen!" Sound familiar?
What she FEELS about the problem is actually more important to her than the problem itself. The problem is not the problem; the feeling is the problem. You need to learn to filter out the problem to focus out her feelings. Only after you have acknowledged her feelings will she want to focus on working on a solution.
She needs to feel loved.
Most women are insecure about whether their man really loves them. Whenever their insecurity is triggered, she may respond in ways that confuse or dismay you, until she feels reassured.
Constant romancing of your woman whether in little or big ways, will tell her that you desire and care for her, thus lessening her feelings of insecurity.
Now that you know these simple facts, try them out! See what your partner says!
based on the books "For Men only" and For women only." by jeff & shaunti feldhahn, multnomah publishers Inc.,2004.
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