Ding Ding Ding... the wedding bells ring. Ding Ding Ding.... your money change into a wedding ring. Ding Ding Ding...and so come everlasting.
Singapore Weddings. Focusing on traditional chinese weddings. The previous weekend was seeing 2 weddings of my relatives. It was plain boring! But the food was good though. HAHA.
Personally, I felt that these weddings activities had not changed in years, or should I say ever since I was first exposed to being in a wedding. It is utterly boring. First, when you enter the hotel, it will be the cocktail session, where guest would roam around, holding a glass of orange or sprite. NO COCKTAILS AT ALL! Bullshit!

And if you happen to attend a distant relative's wedding, there will be tonnes of people you wouldn't know. So you'd just stand there, not knowing what to do except just sipping and sipping that glass of "cocktail" juice.
There's no emcee or event manager to manage the crowds. Like telling people what to do. or perhaps some fringe activites to entertain the crowds. It's just standing like bodyguards for 30-45mins unless of course you found a seat which is like searching a needle in the vast seas.
Moving on, when everyone started settling down at their designated table. If you do not have a full force of family to occupy the entire table, then most likely, you'd be dump with some random strangers who you have not met in your whole life. When the food were served, everyone will be "erm you eat first.." the other person will reply "no no you go ahead"
On the surface it's called table manners but deep down its called FAKE. If you are hungry just eat, after all it's called a wedding dinner for some reason.
Intermittenly, the bride and groom will walk in followed by "Yum Seng" *chinese culture to cheer and give well wishes to the newly wed* and TATS ALL.
This is sure gonna be one memorable wedding and not a forgettable one. My vision for future Singapore Weddings.

Personally, I felt that these weddings activities had not changed in years, or should I say ever since I was first exposed to being in a wedding. It is utterly boring. First, when you enter the hotel, it will be the cocktail session, where guest would roam around, holding a glass of orange or sprite. NO COCKTAILS AT ALL! Bullshit!

And if you happen to attend a distant relative's wedding, there will be tonnes of people you wouldn't know. So you'd just stand there, not knowing what to do except just sipping and sipping that glass of "cocktail" juice.
There's no emcee or event manager to manage the crowds. Like telling people what to do. or perhaps some fringe activites to entertain the crowds. It's just standing like bodyguards for 30-45mins unless of course you found a seat which is like searching a needle in the vast seas.
Moving on, when everyone started settling down at their designated table. If you do not have a full force of family to occupy the entire table, then most likely, you'd be dump with some random strangers who you have not met in your whole life. When the food were served, everyone will be "erm you eat first.." the other person will reply "no no you go ahead"
On the surface it's called table manners but deep down its called FAKE. If you are hungry just eat, after all it's called a wedding dinner for some reason.
Intermittenly, the bride and groom will walk in followed by "Yum Seng" *chinese culture to cheer and give well wishes to the newly wed* and TATS ALL.
I just hope there can be some performance like a few songs or dance performance by professionals or at least involve your guest with some thing. For instance, open up the floor and let everyone whose hype up to let their hair down and dance through the night.

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